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Pin-up Photography is not Pornographic

Last updated on July 28th, 2023 at 01:52 pm

Comment on social media about pinup being akin to pornThe other day I woke up to a text message from a friend. She said someone had posted on my wall comparing my professional photography work to porn.

“Oh goody,” I thought. “What a way to start my day.”

I debated whether I should even read it or delete it outright. Normally I don’t read or respond to nonsensical negativity. But this time, I figured I better decide whether it was a conversation that needed to happen.

Let me introduce you to some of the women who have rocked their inner pinups. Throughout this story, you’ll see images of a few of the amazing women I’ve worked with.

The captions are their own words about how their pinup art makes them feel.

They can tell you better than I that this work is the furthest thing from porn.

Pinup is expression.

Jenna: Pinup is expression. The right to be and feel like a woman includes curves, creases, and folds. To see the body you look at every day in a new light. To be reborn as something you can again see as beautiful. Pornography comes from the Greek word pornographos which were writings about prostitution. Pinups are not prostitutes. They are liberated women.

When you insult my work and compare it to porn, you criticize your fellow women. And I don’t let anyone say anything bad about the incredible, beautiful, diverse women I’ve worked with.

After reading the not-so-nice comment, I knew I had to speak up.

I’ve seen a proliferation of social media postings and articles blaming women for tempting men.

High schools are photo-shopping shirts onto tank top dressed girls in the yearbook. (Because tank tops are the gateway to teen pregnancy! ) Yet the same school celebrated the boys as studs. (Studs are A-OK, though.) Women are criticizing essentially every other woman on Facebook for tempting their husbands. (This is my favorite response to that silliness. Humor is Queen.) Mothers of sons are shaming teen girls for having sexy bodies and (gasp!) learning to feel sexy in their bodies.

I’m sorry if you believe men aren’t responsible for their actions. I grew up in a culture where women were taught to hide all beauty and save it for their husbands. I grew up Muslim. I remember leaving the mosque and accidentally making eye contact with a man in the parking lot. I would get an unwelcome stare until I felt ashamed enough to stare at the pavement.

I can feel your pain to a degree.

pin up art with Iman

Logan: I decided to do pin-up art with Iman because I felt her work of art was tasteful and timeless and something I would have no shame in sharing with my grandchildren one day. I’m glad I have these pictures to honor myself in such an elegant manner.

But I’m a seeker. I grew as a person and grew as a woman. I learned that my body is a gift. From God. To me. Throughout the years, I’ve watched women struggle with their beauty. I’ve watched their sexuality become a burden. Those who were raped and assaulted blamed themselves. They went over and over ways they could have tried to prevent it.

“Maybe if I had dressed differently. Maybe if I hadn’t been so nice. Maybe if I’d had a gun.”

But the only way to stop it is to hold men accountable. Women do not ask for rape. Women do not seek to make their husbands stray. It doesn’t matter what we’re wearing. An empowered woman is a confident woman, and watching that confidence unfold over and over again has changed me forever.

I believe if more women had this confidence, we could change the world.

Pinup is such a beautiful, innocent, art form

Desiree: Before my shoot with Iman, I always thought people were being nice when they said I was beautiful because I don’t fit America’s standard of beauty; my photos helped me see what everyone else does. Pinup is such a beautiful and innocent art form that I think every woman, regardless of size, should partake in, even if it’s just for herself.

I know there will be readers who know a specific woman who has hurt them or tried to go after their man.

I can’t defend every woman. We should assume that MOST women would never seek to make a married man stray.

Let me tell you a little bit about my work. I started this when I was 100 pounds heavier. I didn’t feel beautiful, and throughout the years of helping other women find their beauty, I was blessed to find my own.

So saying, “Been there, done that!” while flaunting my tank top doesn’t begin to describe how much I identify with women everywhere.

Doing pin-up photos with Iman changed my life.

Danielle: Doing pin-up photos with Iman changed my life. I was reminded that my body was amazing. I was worried about baby weight, stretch marks, and everything else as I took photos with her, and yet when I saw the finished photos, I realized that my body was that much more impressive to me for what it had accomplished. I learned to love myself again, thanks to her.

I do all types of photography, but I work primarily with women. Many of my clients struggle with finding themselves beautiful. This affects every aspect of their lives. Seeing them cry because they see themselves in a positive light for the first time breaks and simultaneously heals my heart.

Every. Single. Time.

Knowing that she will be a better mother, wife, and friend because she values herself is why I’m called to my photography profession. A profession started from scratch for the sole purpose of hoping to celebrate the divine beauty of being female.

I’m sorry if you’re struggling in your marriage. I know how heart-rending that is. But if pornography addiction is like other addictions, it’s the addict’s job to deal with it.

A word about the victim-blaming culture we live in. Men that cheat or assault women are not the victim. If your man has a problem with other women, it doesn’t work to blame every other woman just trying to get through life. The women on my website and fan page are doing their best to be good wives, mothers, and friends, just as you are.

If your husband cheats, it’s not your fault. If a woman is raped, it’s not her fault. If a young girl is shamed for having breasts, guess what?

It’s not her fault.

And blaming yourself, blaming her, blaming others isn’t going to stop a man’s roving eye. Men and boys consistently get the message that women overreact and that it’s OK for men to take advantage.

A father pled guilty to molesting his daughter and got probation because the judge felt he wouldn’t fare well in prison. (Um. I think the not-faring-well-in-prison should be part of his sentence.)

I am a woman, a mother, a goddess.

Aimee: I am a woman, a mother, a goddess. I see no fear when I look at myself. No judgment. No comparisons, shortcomings, or weaknesses. I see strength. I see deeper than my skin. I see my soul. This new superhero vision was given to me by Iman, but the best part is I never have to give it back. I see myself for who I truly am – confidently, unconditionally, joyfully – in my photos first and now every time I look in the mirror. I feel it even with my eyes closed when I sleep, walk, and work. I carry it everywhere now: self-love and appreciation. It all started with one photo and an artist who saw inside me first.

What message does this send to men and boys? You’re not responsible. At the same time, it tells women and girls that we are responsible for something very much out of our control.

My best guy friend, Curtis, is one of the best men I’ve ever met. This guy’s honor code is what other men should strive for. I told him how hard it was to write this blog, and he agreed that it’s an important topic with a lot of responsibility.

His thoughts:

“A woman can show up at my door butt-naked. That doesn’t give me the right to have sex with her. An outfit or lack thereof is not the cause of rape. Real men already believe what I just said. Men must stand up and tell society that women are not at fault for being pretty or dressing sexy. Women in some Middle Eastern countries are completely covered up and still assaulted.”

Many pinup models have been assaulted and turned to pinup art as a way to learn to feel sexy and also felt safe. Pinup art (when evoking the 1950s classic style) is a beautiful and naive form of sexy.

It’s timeless. That’s what called me. That’s what grounds every photo I take.

\ It takes a strong woman to be able to say, "I'm a pinup" and mean it.

Linh: The difference between pinup and porn is that in porn, a woman is a sexualized object for men’s pleasure. In pinup, a woman can reclaim her sexuality for herself and is no longer an object for men. It takes a strong woman to be able to say, “I’m a pinup,” and mean it.

Let’s look at porn as an addiction. Addictions are very difficult to overcome.

I was addicted to food. I didn’t blame my friends and family for eating what they wanted. I didn’t blame the restaurants for serving yummy food.

I had to admit that I had a problem and make MYSELF accountable for MY OWN actions. I removed temptation by not buying stuff in the first place. I added therapy and exercise. I eventually won. But I will have to watch and monitor it for the rest of my life.

The images she captured of me that day will always be treasured.

Being a mother of two children, fighting to win against several breast cancer tumors, going through many treatments, and working to help contribute to my family, my mind, body, and spirit were quite exhausted. Iman came into my life through a couple of mutual friends and Facebook. I was not only given a gift where my physical appearance was transformed, but so was my mind, body, and spirit that, just hours before, felt battered. Iman made me feel happy as I giggled through a magical and empowering photo shoot. I left her studio feeling beautiful. Her words, encouragement, and the images she captured of me that day will always be treasured.

So I do apologize for this: I’m sorry we live in a culture of victim-blaming.

I’m sorry we blame the mistress more than the straying husband. I’m sorry we give men far more control and power than we should.

I’m sorry if your God is small and your body and sexuality are a burden.

An empowered woman is sexy. She knows how to enjoy her body, please her man and she won’t settle for a man who wants less than her. She also understands that her man will naturally see many beautiful women throughout his lifetime. And she is not threatened.

I’m truly sorry you feel this way. There’s a photo shoot for that.

I felt brighter and bolder than I had felt in years

Iman’s work made me take a step back away from the daily look in the mirror at an overworked and underappreciated mom. That step was in makeup and heels, and I felt brighter and bolder than I had felt in years. The smile was real, not forced, and I truly SAW the woman I am. I am more thankful for that reminder than I can say. (My favorite picture is the one with my legs in the air).

 

 

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Iman Woods
Iman Woods

Iman Woods is an American artist who specializes in pin-up photography. Through a unique and therapeutic process, she’s spent over a decade in perfecting, Iman helps women undo the damage from a negative self-image and unrealistic beauty industry expectations. She helps women embrace their own style of beauty and see themselves in a new light. You can find her on her website, ImanWoods[dot]com.

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