Last updated on November 25th, 2019 at 01:40 pm
We are approaching the end of my son’s senior year of high school. This weekend was the prom, and I am happy to note that all shared bliss in attendance.
It’s in these moments when happiness unveils her sweet caress that I slow everything down in my mind to ask myself why these moments are so delectably blissful.
I get that there is a lesson to be learned about dreaming big and knowing your purpose–if I allow myself to be vulnerable and stay in the present moment, I may see bliss in action.
It’s the magic behind dreams coming true.
Earlier this week, while pretending to be domestic, I was hemming my son’s tuxedo jacket and listening to NPR interview Philippe Petit, AKA “Man on a Wire.”
I was happily hemming the jacket while taking in this extraordinary time in one’s life where you transition out of high school to a world waiting for you to change it with your presence. It’s magical. We often fuck it up (sorry mom).
There are too few creative people to guide you as you transition into adulthood. The reason I started 8WomenDream is that when I too was turning 18, I let go of my passion for another type of passion (you know what I am talking about here) and I stopped listening to my heart.
Now that I am back observing what following your passion looks like, I am hypersensitive to how disconnected we can be from our true calling.
And as much as you might not like to hear it, there’s something you do that you are fabulous at that calls out to you. You cannot ignore the calling.
Yet, too often, you brush it aside.
And if at this point in your life you believe that your inner passion magnet isn’t pulling you towards something, then this means that when you were younger, something or someone messed with your true calling while yanking you away from your bliss.
This leads me back to the NPR interview with the high-wire artist Philippe Petit. Petit was asked about his passion for rope and high wire, and Petit talked about how your passion must call you, and you are compelled to respond. The litmus test to following your dream is that you have to do this thing that calls out to you.
It’s as if you have no choice.
You cannot ignore it. It’s your motto. Petit says, “Passion is the motto of all my actions.”
It’s in the living of your motto that you find bliss. It’s like being around kids that are about to graduate from school and step expectantly out into their life. Being around them makes you breathe in their hope, yearning, and passion for the future.
Their energy will crackle about you and force you to smile at odd moments while sewing tuxedo jackets at 2 in the morning.
You see that they are passionate about life, and you are re-connected with that feeling.
It’s not youth. It’s a passion.
When did you stop feeling passionate about your future? When did life stuff your passions into your back pocket and sew it shut? When did you start being so afraid? When did you start playing it so safe?
When did the motto of your actions start with “safety first?”
Am I truly called to do execute this publishing dream of mine? Is it calling out to me in the middle of the night like a lost french lover? Does it have me wanting to walk barefoot outside in the rain? Does it call to me to wave my tie in the air in the middle of the night?
We aren’t old. We’ve just forgotten how to be young, passionate, and addicted to our big dreams.
Catherine Hughes is the editor and founder of 8WomenDream. She’s also a magazine columnist, content creator, blogger, published author, and former award-winning mom blogger. Catherine collaborates with companies to craft engaging web content and social media narratives. Her work, highlighting stories of the resilience and success of Northern California residents, appears in several print magazines. Outside of work, she treasures motherhood, her close friendships, rugby, and animals.
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