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When Speaking Gets SCARY! Motivational Speaker Nightmares

Last updated on January 23rd, 2019 at 10:36 am

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7 Scary Sides of Public Speaking

Most people think that it would be easy to be a motivational speaker. Wrong. There is a very dark scary side of public speaking.

In honor of Halloween, I thought I’d take you to the dark side.  Hang on!

1. Motivational Speaker Nightmares: Videos That Never Die

Ahhhh….the old video that comes back to haunt you over and over. The video you can’t remove because it’s got so many hits and generates an extra four dollars every month.

So you keep it up there, hoping against hope, that some potential client doesn’t find this one.

2. Motivational Speaker Nightmares: Headshots That Suck

It’s that picture you thought looked great at the time. And then a week later, once you’ve spent your life savings on all the copies, you wonder what you were thinking.

You might be thinking, “What? I don’t think it looks that bad!”  That’s because there’s three feet of butt I cut out.

When Speaking Gets SCARY! MY Motivational Speaker Photo

3. Motivational  Speaker Nightmares: Things You Thought Were Funny At The Time

What would possess me to do a video of me, a frazzled mom, hiding in the bathroom from my toddler?

Seemed funny at the time. Not so much now.

4. Motivational Speaker Nightmares: Dream Audiences Who End Up Nightmares

Oh, where to begin . . .

… the drunk audience (lady’s head fell into her plate as I was getting up to speak)

… the audience who couldn’t hear me because the sound system wasn’t working, but they were too polite to tell me

… the lady in the nursing home who yelled at me in Yiddish and told me to “get the hell out of there”

… the guys who worked in the brewery and had to come hear me for diversity week (enough said)

… the trash men who had to come see me for their employee appreciation day and do motivational exercises

… all the servers who come hell or high water were going to clear those dishes even if they did block the speaker

…. the cute little guy who came up on stage to move the podium because that was on his to-do list (apparently nobody specified that he should do it BEFORE I started speaking)

… the couple sleeping in the front row of my one-woman show, both of them snoring loudly

… the group of kids I’d been hired to tell stories to at a birthday party, who decided halfway through that I sucked and left

5. Motivational Speaker Nightmares: Clients Who Wanted To Suck My Blood

That was a vampire reference, by the way.  But here are some things that Count Draculas have said over the years . . .

We know you are really great, but we don’t have any money. What if we feed you? Can you come then?

We’d like for you to come speak, but we’d appreciate it if you wouldn’t do all that southern stuff.

I thought Jeff Foxworthy was funnier than you.

We love you work, but we decided to go with a clown instead.

How do you feel about performing in a prison?

Sure! We will pay you full fee. Just fill out this tiny form. And then go online and apply for this code. And then wait two weeks and fill this sheet out. And then apply for a vendor number. We’ll let you know two weeks after that if you are awarded the contract at which time you will need to fill out a series of forms.

6. Motivational Speaker Nightmares: Outfits That Looked Good In Your Mirror At Home

When Speaking Gets SCARY! My Motivational Speaker Muffin Top

7. Motivational Speaker Nightmares: Business Mishaps

1. Deciding that my book would be eclectic if I didn’t put any picture on the front. Just words and nothing else. I sold two – both to my mother. And she returned them.

2. Finding a typo on the back cover of my book after I’ve sold hundreds. And still not changing it.

3. Forgetting to save receipts.

4. Making what I thought was a local call from a hotel that was really long distance. Cost me $147 and it would have been free if I used my cell. But I didn’t want to get up.

Happy Halloween! I hope your dream is bigger than your nightmare!

Kelly Swanson
You. Your Story. Make An Impact!

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Kelly Swanson
Kelly Swanson

Kelly Swanson is an award-winning storyteller, comedian, motivational speaker, Huffington Post Contributor, and cast member of The Fashion Hero television show airing on Amazon Prime. She is also the author of Who Hijacked My Fairy Tale, The Land of If Only, The Story Formula, and The Affirmation Journal for Positive Thinking. She was a featured entertainer for Holland America Cruise Lines, keynote speaker for the International Toastmasters Convention, and has keynoted major conferences and corporate events from coast to coast. She just launched her one-woman show Who Hijacked My Fairy Tale in theaters, and it is being booked all over the country. In July of 2022, she was inducted into the National Speakers Association Speaker Hall of Fame.

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